“You’re not ready for a relationship,” she said. “You still need time to heal after the divorce. You need to find yourself again.”
He was quiet for a moment.
“Divorce is like the death of a loved one. You don’t really heal from something like this,” he said. “You just get better at living with it.”
He took a deep breath.
“As for finding myself…”
He smiled.
“I found myself the moment I decided to choose myself.”
Lives Between Walls 
What do you think about this?